Relationship Ramblings

14 Tips For Successful No-Strings Dating

No-strings dating isn’t for everyone. If you’re the romantic, monogamous type, you probably already know that. But if you’re partnerless for any number of reasons, whether it’s by your choosing or not, here are some good reasons why you might want to check out a site like to find someone who’s just as hot and like-minded as you.

What Makes a Good No Strings Partner?
If you haven’t been in an NSA situation before and not sure if it’s right for you, ask yourself If any of these situations apply to you. They’re also good things to find out about someone before hooking up with them. Anyone getting into an NSA situation with the hopes of it leading into a happily-ever-after situation is only in for a world of drama, and not the fairy tale kind.

1. You’ve had a bad breakup and just want to have some fun.

2. You don’t have time for a committed relationship.

3. You love your space but you love sex, too.

4. You enjoy sex but don’t want the drama or baggage that can come with a regular partner.

5. There are so many cute and sexy things all around you that you just don’t want to be tied down to a single person.

6. You just got out of a long-term relationship and just want to explore who’s out there and a few fun opportunities to discover your true sexual self.

Keep it Hot!

If you’re interested in hooking up with someone for a no strings attached relationship, here are a few things you need to keep in mind.

7. Don’t have no-strings sex with a good friend. The both of you might be in the same situation, but sex can really mess up a good friendship. Good friendships can last for years, if not forever. No-strings sex partners aren’t meant to last forever to last forever and that’s okay. A lot of relationships exist because they fulfill a need, even if they’re short-term or intermittent needs.

8. Don’t have no-strings sex with two friends from the same group. Even if the two of you have a don’t ask, don’t tell policy, getting caught can mess up the good thing you have going and a good friendship between your partner’s buddy or her BFF.

9. Don’t have casual no-strings attached sex with someone you’re in love with or have deep feelings for. While sex can be an emotionally powerful thing, doesn’t always lead to romantic emotions. If this is your hook and bait, the only thing you’ll wind up catching is a bucketful of hurt.

10. Practice safer sex. Always. There’s no way you can know how many others this person is sleeping with at the same time or who else has come before you.

11. Have a mutual understanding. Have a conversation with your partner so both of you know where this arrangement is going … and where it’s not.

12. Never lead anyone on by romancing them or with promises of a long-term relationship. That’s just a sleazy and shitty thing to do. You only have yourself to blame if your partner goes crazy on you.

13. Don’t sleep with random strangers. Get to know your partner over a few in-person meetings or conversations. Trust, safety and security are everything in no-strings sex.

14. Be selfish. Focus on how much fun you’re having. If you’re turned on, your partner will be turned on and will think he’s a sex god (or think she’s a sex goddess), too.

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