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Didn’t Have an Orgasm? It Doesn’t Always Mean You Had Bad Sex.

AGWDM didn't have an orgasmThere have been a few times, maybe once or twice, that I didn’t have an orgasm when I had sex with Parrot.

There was one time in particular when I didn’t moan, scream or feel like I was being transported into another dimension. However, that time was lovely and transcendent. I felt blissful as if I was floating on a cloud. To this day, I never wanted to deconstruct the possible reasons why I didn’t have an orgasm.

All too often, people don’t focus on the other many reasons why sex is so pleasurable. It could be just the sake of feeling your partner’s skin, breath or presence. It can be all about connecting with your partner in a loving way without saying a word. Sometimes, sex is just soothing and relaxing or it can revitalize you in other ways.

Whether orgasms happen should never be viewed as success or an accomplishment. There’s a lot of fun that happens along the way toward the final destination. Maybe it’s just the opportunity to be playful or cheeky with each other or to act out our sexual alter egos, especially the fantasies and pushing sexual boundaries. Acts of foreplay are enjoyable, feel good, and should never be discounted. If you think of foreplay solely as a means or necessity to get your partner primed to have intercourse or to get off, you and your partner are missing out on a lot. That kind of thinking or vibe can often lead to you or your partner to not attain an orgasm.

Sometimes sex is good for other reasons and we really need appreciate and focus more on them.

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