Ms. Q & A

Ms. Q & A: She Doesn’t Like the Way Her Pussy Looks

Dear Ms. Q,

I was playing with myself the other day and thought I’d get really kinky by getting a hand mirror and seeing what was going on. I got totally grossed out. It looked nothing like the pussies I’ve seen in porn. Am I a freak? I can’t stand the thought of someone new seeing it if I decide to get intimate with someone new.

Embarrassed Emily

Dear Emily,

Get over your embarrassment. Now!

Vulvas and labias come in all shapes, sizes and colors. Some of them are smooth looking and some of them are wrinkly. Sometimes, like breasts, one side can be larger or have a different shape than the other (like mine). Vulvas and labias can also change in color and shape from childbirth and aging. Sexual arousal can also affect the appearance of vulvas and labias. I definitely notice the plumpness and engorgement when I’m aroused and love it!

Also, keep in mind that there could be a lot of digital editing in the pussies you’ve seen on videos and in photos.

If the appearance of your pussy bothers you that much, you can get labiaplasty. It’s safe, but it’s still surgery. I’ve heard that recovery time is usually about a month. However, if it’s not done for a medically necessary reason, you can expect to pay for the $2,500-$5,000 bill out of your own pocket.

As far as what men think of your or anyone’s pussy, I have never heard a man complain about or reject a woman because of the way her pussy looks – and if a guy does, he’s probably not the kind of guy you want.

As long as you enjoy the pleasure you get out of your pussy, that’s the most important reason to love and accept it.

Ms. Q

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