Even with its risks, sexting and pic trading are here to stay, and exchanging text messages on a sex texting site like AROUSR has a ton of benefits. It’s also a great and safe way to try out new ideas, explore sides of your sexuality you’re not sure about, and can even add some spice to your sex life and relationship.
1. A sexting service ensures the person on the other end of the phone is at least 18 years old.
A sexting site requires two pieces of ID to make sure that each of its chat hosts are at
least 18 years old. It ensures you don’t mistakenly send an explicit text
message for someone it’s not intended, or worse, wind up in the newspaper or on
2. A secure sexting platform site ensures privacy and confidentiality.
Can you really trust an anonymous or known sexting buddy or even a spouse to keep your sext, pic trading or phone sex messages private? While both parties usually have reputations or more to lose if things go wrong (Remember Anthony Weiner? Both times?), you never know how things can go sideways. Even if you take someone to court under a revenge porn law, the damage has already been done. The Court of Public Opinion never forgets.
Chat hosts on sites like AROUSR do not know the names or phone numbers of people who use the service. They are absolutely forbidden to and will be immediately fired if they disclose anyidentifiable or private information about any of the service’s members if they come across them. The business will not share or sell your contact information.
Using a sexting platform also has additional privacy perks. If you do not want to leave traces of text messages on your phone, there’s a free sexting app available. There’s absolutely no risk in having your mom or grandma seeing your private pics when you’re sharing or showing them pictures from last weekend’s family barbecue or your kid’s birthday party.
3. You can test your ideas with a “real woman” and see how she reacts. Let’s say that you have a fantasy, kink or fetish and you’re not sure if or how you want to bring it up with your partner. Run it by a woman on a sext chat site and see how she responds. You could even ask her for advice on how to bring it up to your partner. Trust me, these ladies have heard everything. They’ll be honest and objective because they have no emotional attachment to you. They’ll be tactful and helpful because they want to come back (as well as come!) and
hopefully refer others to her.
Connecting with a woman on a sex texting site, or even through phone sex or video or Skype sex sessions, can be a great way to explore fantasies that are purely that – fantasies – things that would be impossible or not sure if you want to carry out in real life.
And you don’t have to keep your sext life secret from your partner. Bring your partner in on the fun and see where things take off from there. Call it foreplay before the foreplay!
This post is brought to you by AROUSR. Information and opinions about this topic are genuinely my own.