There’s a new article every day about a new sex position that promises to put some extra zest in your sex life. In a lot of cases, unless you’re one of the Flying Wallendas, an endurance athlete, or double-jointed in 318 parts of your body, there’s just no fucking way you can fuck like that.
Great sex doesn’t always mean doing something wild and crazy in the bedroom. A lot of times, the sizes and shapes of your and your partner’s bodies have a lot to do with which sex positions are right for you. Also, there are certain types of positions that are best suited for the way you want to penetrate or be penetrated by your partner.
Here are some positions that are worth trying…
Best Sex Position for a Man with a Penis Under 6 Inches
Going in rear entry — vaginally or anally — is the best way to go in as deep as possible. Rest her head and shoulders on a pillow, lift her butt up, then have her squeeze her thighs. The tighter her legs, the snugger the fit. Go light on the lube if you absolutely need it. You’ll want all the friction you can get.
Best Sex Position for a Man with a Large Penis
Spend some quality time during foreplay using a dildo or fingering to help the vagina expand. Ladies, get on top for the Cowgirl position so you can control how deep you can take him. Lean over his body with your hands on either side of his head on the floor or a mattress as if you’re about to do a pushup. The Cowgirl can be a little bit easier if you have a cushy, oversized lounge chair, recliner or couch so the man can sit and lean back. Lube is a must, especially for men who have quite a bit of girth. This may be a challenging position if a big guy is paired with a petite woman. Also, be warned that the Cowgirl position the most common reasons why men get fractured penises according to emergency room statistics.
Best Sex Position for a Man with a Bent Penis
For the man with a slight sideways shaped-penis, stand next to the mattress while she lies on it. Angle your thrusts to find what feels best depending on which direction your penis bends.
Best Sex Positions for Clitoral Stimulation
Gotta love the Pile Driver for direct access to the clit! Ladies, lay on the mattress with your butt at the edge of the bed with your legs spread out in a “V” formation. Men, hang onto her legs for her support as well as yours as you make some deep impact penetration. Having your pubis rub up against her clitoris during penetration multiplies orgasmic pleasure in more ways than one for both of you. Keep in mind that there are some things that may prevent this position from being a screaming success such as a man being too tall or too short to make a comfortable coital alignment or a bed that’s too high or too low. Good alternatives are to use a tabletop or bathroom counter top. Men, brace your hands on the edge of the tabletop or counter top for support and so she can rest her legs against your arms to sustain her legs in that position.
Best Sex Positions for Deep Penetration
Ladies, lie on your back and lift your hips off the mattress and hoist your legs over your partner’s shoulders. Wrapping your legs around your partner’s back works well, too. Use a pillow under your butt if you need it for support. Guys, stand on the side of the bed with your partner’s butt lying at the edge of the bed or kneel between your partner’s legs. The “right” stance for a man depends on his height and the height of the mattress. The Pile Driver (See Best Position for Clitoral Stimulation) is wonderful for deep penetration, too.