The Rich Taste of Sex Butter

AGWDM sex butterThere are risks and rewards of getting chummy with people I like and come across online. Bonnie Gayle, the founder of Sex Butter, is one of those people. She told me about how she wanted to create something that was body-safe and would allow her and others to keep enjoying sex during menopause and beyond. I like her personally and love the way she thinks and had the power and courage to become a sex entrepreneur. After chatting a bit on Facebook and Twitter, she asked if I would review Sex Butter. I enthusiastically agreed.

Sex Butter has so many of the ingredients I love in skin care ingredients – shea, cocoa, coconut, jojoba, grapeseed and peppermint oils – and they’re all organic. I’m not sure what the “proprietary lend of essential oils” are, but after a seven-day test on my vulva and my hand, the combination is definitely works as a skin rejuvenator. Women, especially those with dry skin, will love it. I’m sure men who want a buttery soft penis will love it, too. I can pretty safely say that peppermint oil is in there. It smells like the leaves were plucked off a plant in a garden and went straight to a kitchen to be chopped. And just in case you’re wondering, it’s edible.

Sex Butter works wonderfully as a lube. Its semi-solid consistency melts quite nicely on body temperature and has a heavenly guide that’s not too slippery, drippy, messy or oily.

However, Sex Butter is not for everyone. Since it’s an oil-based lubricant, it’s not compatible with condoms and a hell of a mess to clean off sex toys. (Note: I used a condom over a dildo vibrator on its last legs for ease of cleaning. I didn’t notice any damage to the condom, but I don’t recommend taking a chance with a partner.)

Those are exceptions I and others would gladly work around. However, there are two big faults with Sex Butter that I can’t overlook. I hope they’re faults that can be remedied at some point.

First is the packaging. I love the pomade style container. It’s classy and stylish. However, I’m really squeamish about reinserting my fingers in a product that’s going into and onto sexual body parts. No matter how clean I (or my lover) keep my hands clean, there’s too much risk of transferring bacteria into the lubricant that’s in the container. Heaven forbid I should have a vaginal yeast or bacterial infection I’m not aware that’s brewing. A squeeze tube would be great for Sex Butter.

Also, the price is way too steep. I’m willing to pay a bit more for a quality lube, but $39.95 is way over the top, especially for only ½ ounce of lube.

Somehow, some way, there has to be a way for Sex Butter to succeed. I hope to see that happen.

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1 Comment on The Rich Taste of Sex Butter

  1. me too. i liked the owner but she didn’t get back to me so i hunted down the url and it was 404’d. i assumed business had closed. i actually loved the product but only was sent tiny little sampes in blue “gell eyleiner” type screw top fingertip sized containers. sigh. hopefully the price will come dback down to earth now nad i can rereview the product in earnest.
    love your review n articles btw!

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