Great Sex & Relationships

Those Naked Times When We’re Not Having Sex

AGWDM those naked times when we're not having sexI love those times when Parrot and I just lay in bed naked and there’s no objective that we have sex. We touch each other, hold each other, and just talk. It’s usually after we’ve made love and aren’t in a hurry to go off to dinner, get on with our day, or roll over and fall asleep. Sometimes we’ll watch a movie or listen to music this way. Sometimes it’s just the breather we need before we go onto Round 2, but it’s never the objective. Round 2 just happens when it happens.

To me, this kind of time we have together is just as sensual and sexual as sex itself. I love this time because it feels so good. He feels good. It’s comforting and indulgent. We get to focus on each other and share our most open and intimate thoughts about each other. To me, it’s such a gift to enjoy being skin-to-skin with each without feeling that we have to follow a script of seduction, foreplay and sex, yet it’s very sexy and intimate.

It dawned on me before I started writing this that I’ve never had this kind of time with this with any other lover before. Do I feel like I’ve been shortchanged all those years? Oh, hell no! I think times we spend like this, even if It’s over the phone, sexting or Skype, are truly special because I’ve only had them with him.