Relationship Ramblings

‘Une Nuit a L’Auberge’: Thoughts on Making More Love, Not Porn

When Parrot and I decided to tape some of our intimate times that we shared during a trip to California Wine Country back in October, we stayed at a charming B&B just outside of Cloverdale. The second day we were there, we shared a romantic dinner and reminisced about the day’s events … a mountaintop winery tour and tasting, our au naturel picnic overlooking Lake Sonoma, long drives taking in the late harvest landscapes along the roads in the Anderson Valley and Russian River regions. It was one of many uniquely sensually indulgent days that we’ve spent together. In all, it really set the mood for what we captured on our video, Une Nuit a L’Auberge (A Night at the Inn), that we’re sharing with others at makelovenotporn.tv.

Most people get off visually or audibly by watching sex and porn on video, but in the dozens of times I’ve watched this video, it’s always been about reliving the exact same feelings, thoughts and sensations that I felt at the time. Words like tender, beautiful, dream-like, sensual and even hilarious don’t come close to describing what was going on through my mind. I wonder if words like powerful, majestic and magical will come to mind if viewers were to assume how I was taking in Parrot’s vibe. If only video could capture what goes on between us mentally and emotionally. What people see and hear only tells part of the story.

And yeah, there’s lots to hear … especially toward the end of the video.

Perhaps some people will pick up on those thoughts, feelings and emotions. After all, we’re not actors. None of what’s on video was scripted or premeditated. Seconds after Parrot turned on the camera, I forgot it there.

But if people enjoy watching the video and get turned on or inspired in their own ways, that’s a thrill, too. After all, we enjoy sharing #RealWorldSex.

To read Parrot’s thoughts about making love and not porn, check out the story he shared at Make Love Not Porn